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MARCH 2004
 
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HOW TO CALM YOUR CRYING BABY
By Elizabeth Pantley, author of Gentle Baby Care


When we're pregnant or awaiting adoption, we dream about our baby-to-be,
we always envision those beautiful Hallmark card scenes: charming baby
smiling up at peaceful mother's face. We read books in advance of the
big day about how care for a newborn - how to bathe, feed and dress her
- and then we feel somewhat prepared. However, a crying baby was never
part of that idyllic vision, so this takes us by surprise. But the fact
is, all babies cry at one time or another. Some babies cry more than
others, but they all do cry. Understanding why babies cry can help you
get through this phase and respond effectively to your crying baby  - so
can the list of ideas that follows.

Why does my baby cry?
Simply put, babies cry because they cannot talk. Babies are human
beings, and they have needs and desires, just as we do, but they can't
express them. Even if they could talk, very often they wouldn't
understand why they feel the way they do, they wouldn't understand
themselves well enough to articulate their needs, so babies need someone
to help them figure it all out. Their cries are the only way they can
say, "Help me! Something isn't right here!"


Different kinds of cries
As you get to know your baby, you'll become the expert in understanding
his cries in a way that no one else can. In their research, child
development professionals have determined that certain types of cries
mean certain things. In other words, babies don't cry the same exact way
every time. (Other child development experts, also known as mothers,
have known that for millennia.)

Over time, you'll recognize particular cries as if they were spoken
words. In addition to these cry signals, you often can determine why
your baby is crying by the situation surrounding the cry. Following are
common reasons for Baby's cry, and the clues that may tell you what's
up:

Hunger: If three or four hours have passed since his last feeding, if he
has just woken up, or if he has just had a very full diaper and he
begins to cry, he's probably hungry. A feeding will most likely stop the
crying.

Tiredness: Look for these signs: decreased activity, losing interest in
people and toys, rubbing eyes, looking glazed, and the most obvious ¾
yawning If you notice any of these in your crying baby, she may just
need to sleep. Time for bed!

Discomfort: If a baby is uncomfortable ¾ too wet, hot, cold, squished ¾
he'll typically squirm or arch his back when he cries, as if trying to
get away from the source of his discomfort. Try to figure out the source
of his distress and solve his problem.

Pain: A cry of pain is sudden and shrill, just like when an adult or
older child cries out when they get hurt. It may include long cries
followed by a pause during which your baby appears to stop breathing. He
then catches his breath and lets out another long cry. Time to check
your baby's temperature and undress him for a full-body examination.

Overstimulation: If the room is noisy, people are trying to get your
baby's attention, rattles are rattling, music boxes are playing, and
your baby suddenly closes her eyes and cries (or turns her head away),
she may be trying to shut out all that's going on around her and find
some peace. It's time for a quiet, dark room and some peaceful cuddles.

Illness: When your baby is sick, he may cry in a weak, moaning way. This
is his way of saying, "I feel awful." If your baby seems ill, look for
any signs of sickness, take her temperature and call your healthcare
provider.

Frustration. Your baby is just learning how to control her hands, arms,
and feet. She may be trying to get her fingers into her mouth or to
reach a particularly interesting toy, but her body isn't cooperating.
She cries out of frustration, because she can't accomplish what she
wants to do. All she needs is a little help.

Loneliness: If your baby falls asleep feeding and you place her in her
crib, but she wakes soon afterward with a cry, she may be saying that
she misses the warmth of your embrace and doesn't like to be alone. A
simple situation to resolve.

Worry or fear. Your baby suddenly finds himself in the arms of Great
Aunt Matilda and can't see you; his previously happy gurgles turn
suddenly to crying. He's trying to tell you that he's scared: He doesn't
know this new person, and he wants Mommy or Daddy. Explain to Auntie
that he needs a little time to warm up to someone new, and try letting
the two of them get to know each other while Baby stays in your arms.

Boredom. Your baby has been sitting in his infant seat for 20 minutes
while you talk and eat lunch with a friend. He's not tired, hungry or
uncomfortable, but he starts a whiny, fussy cry. He may be saying that
he's bored and needs something new to look at or touch. A new position
for his seat or a toy to hold may help.

Colic. If your baby cries inconsolably for long periods every day,
particularly at the same time each day, he may have colic. Researchers
are still unsure of colic's exact cause. Some experts believe that colic
is related to the immaturity of a baby's digestive system. Whatever the
cause, and it may be a combination of all the theories; colic is among
the most exasperating conditions that parents of new babies face. Colic
occurs only to newborn babies, up to about four to five months of age.
Look for patterns to your baby's crying; these can provide clues as to
which suggestions are most likely to help. Then experiment with some of
the ideas in this list and in the rest of this article.

·If breastfeeding, feed on demand (cue feeding), for nutrition as well
as comfort, as often as your baby needs a calming influence.

·If breastfeeding, try avoiding foods that may cause gas in your baby,
such as dairy products, caffeine, cabbage, broccoli and other gassy
vegetables.

·If bottlefeeding, offer more frequent but smaller meals; experiment
with different formulas with your doctor or health care provider's
approval.

·If bottlefeeding, try different types of bottles and nipples that
prevent air from entering your baby as he drinks, such as those with
curved bottles or collapsible liners.

·Hold your baby in a more upright position for feeding and directly
afterwards.

·Experiment with how often and when you burp your baby.

·Offer meals in a quiet setting.

·If baby likes a pacifier, offer him one.

·Invest in a baby sling or carrier and use it during colicky periods.

·If the weather's too unpleasant for an outside stroll, bring your
stroller in the house and walk your baby around.

·Give your baby a warm bath.

·Hold your baby with her legs curled up toward her belly.

·Massage your baby's tummy, or give him a full massage.

·Swaddle your baby in a warm blanket.

·Lay your baby tummy down across your lap and massage or pat her back.

·Hold your baby in a rocking chair, or put him in a swing.

·Walk with Baby in a quiet, dark room while you hum or sing.

·Try keeping your baby away from highly stimulating situations during
the day when possible to prevent sensory overload.

·Lie on your back and lay your baby on top of your tummy down while
massaging his back. (Transfer your baby to his bed if he falls asleep.)

·Take Baby for a ride in the car.

·Play soothing music or turn on white noise such as a vacuum cleaner or
running water.

·As a last resort, ask your doctor or health care provider about
medications available for colic and gas.


What about fussy crying?
There are plenty of times when you can't tell if your baby's crying is
directly related to a fixable situation: hunger, a soiled diaper, or a
longing to be held. That's when parents get frustrated and nervous.
That's when you should take a deep breath and try some of the following
cry-stoppers:

Hold your baby. No matter the reason for your baby's cry, being held by
a warm and comforting person offers a feeling of security and may calm
his crying. Babies love to be held in arms, slings, front-pack carriers,
and (when they get a little older) backpacks; physical contact is what
they seek and what usually soothes them best.

Breastfeed your baby. Nursing your baby is as much for comfort as food.
All four of my babies calmed easily when brought to the breast - so much
so that my husband has always called it "The Secret Weapon." And my
babies are very typical. Breastfeeding is an important and powerful tool
for baby soothing.

Provide motion. Babies enjoy repetitive, rhythmic motion such as
rocking, swinging, swaying, jiggling, dancing or a drive in the car.
Many parents instinctually begin to sway with a fussy baby, and for a
good reason: It works.

Turn on some white noise. The womb was a very noisy place. Remember the
sounds you heard on the Doppler stethoscope? Not so long ago, your baby
heard those 24 hours a day. Therefore, your baby sometimes can be calmed
by "white noise" - that is, noise that is continuous and uniform, such
as that of a heartbeat, the rain, static between radio stations, and
your vacuum cleaner. Some alarm clocks even have a white noise function.


Let music soothe your baby. Soft, peaceful music is a wonderful baby
calmer. That's why lullabies have been passed down through the ages. You
don't have to be a professional singer to provide your baby with a song;
your baby loves to hear your voice. In addition to your own songs,
babies usually love to hear any kind of music. Experiment with different
types of tunes, since babies have their own favorites that can range
from jazz to country to classical, and even rock and rap.

Swaddle your baby. During the first three or four months of life, many
babies feel comforted if you can re-create the tightly contained
sensation they enjoyed in the womb.

Massage your baby. Babies love to be touched and stroked, so a massage
is a wonderful way to calm a fussy baby. A variation of massage is the
baby pat; many babies love a gentle, rhythmic pat on their backs or
bottoms.

Let your baby have something to suck on. The most natural pacifier is
mother's breast, but when that isn't an option, a bottle, pacifier,
Baby's own fingers, a teething toy, or Daddy's pinkie can work wonders
as a means of comfort.

Distract your baby. Sometimes a new activity or change of scenery ¾
maybe a walk outside, or a dance with a song, or a splashy bath ¾ can be
very helpful in turning a fussy baby into a happy one.

Reading your baby's body language

Many times, you can avoid the crying altogether by responding right away
to your baby's earliest signals of need, such as fussing, stiffening her
body, or rooting for the breast. As you get to know your baby and learn
her signals, determining what she needs will become easier for you ¾
even before she cries.


This article is a copyrighted excerpt from Gentle Baby Care by Elizabeth
Pantley. (McGraw-Hill, 2003)

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